Step 1 “Pain does not occur just by massaging”
Before massaging anal, first prepare yourself by condoms, lubricants and anal washing tools like Douches & Enemas etc. before anal sex. For the beginner couple, it is better to start preparation in the anal masturbation or prostate masturbation.
Before inserting anything into the anal it is important for the beginner couple to massage the anus with personal lubricant. Many people get excited and insert the anal sex toys hardly or fastly which cause the pain. So user should always insert the anal sex toys slowly and smoothly.
As you know that like vagina, anal does not produce its own lubricant and the skin around the anal is hard and tight, so user feels pain during insertion. But if user massage with the help of personal lubricant near the anal before insertion then it reduces the pain.
Of course, anal massage also needs to take time. Do it slowly and carefully. Therefore, it is good to massage the anal with Anal Lubes or Silicone Lubes which have a long time lubrication effect. The purpose is to massage the surface of tight anus is too remove the tension in the muscles.
Step 2 “Insert fingers in and out”
Once user completed with the massaging process then you should insert the fingers. Before inserting any of the anal sex toys, the first user should perform masturbation with index fingers. When the user inserts the index fingers for the first time then it can be a little bit painful. User should insert the index fingers in and slowly remove it out. People should do this process again and again. You can also change index finger to middle finger. At the last, can insert the two fingers in and pull it out slowly.
In this case, it is good to refer to the dildo for anal which is slightly larger than the thickness of the finger or Beginners Anal Toys etc. If it is small then insert it. Of course, we also recommend using plenty of lubricant.
While inserting the fingers into the anal, it is important for user to apply the personal lubricant on the tip of the fingers. While inserting the fingers into the anal, you can easily push the personal lubricant into the intestine. It helps you to reduce the pain during anal penetration.
Now try to find your limit, are you being able to insert an dildo for anal equal to or smaller than the penis at this point?. Anal sex is still early if dildo for anal cannot be inserted at this point. You have to get used to the anal repeatedly this little by little.
Step 3 “Fill the anal lube in the Lubricant Applicators and push it in and then repeat loosening”
During anal sex, user can also use Lubricant Applicators to apply the personal lubricant. First, you should fill the appliance with the personal lubricant and then inject the lubricant into the anal.
Before inserting penis, inject lubricant into the dedicated partner’s anal with Lubricant Applicators firmly. It will prevent you from injury because lubricant cannot be delivered deeply when a lubricant is applied to anal with your finger.
Be sure to wear condoms when doing anal sex. It is because there is a possibility that the penis may cause inflammation because there are many bacteria in the anal. And apply the lubricant firmly to the penis.
Personal lubricant helps to reduce the friction, so the user does not feel pain. If users are using any types of anal sex toys then it is important for them to apply the personal lubricant on the surface of the anal sex toys. This makes penetration easy and smooth. If you need then they can reapply the lubricant during the penetration.